i used to have a program on my old pc that alloud me to have no waiting time for nudges, take ads away take the says bit off what you post, but i cant remember what its called, anyone know?
Wow you have to deal with that while using the offical msn client? No wonder I use pidgin... Ignoring my ad you can try A-patch which does everything you've described and more, way more. On the downside it has annoying religious messages in it, but hey free speak right.
Yeah, A-patch is what you're looking for. The best thing about it is that it gets rid of the annoying advertisements in your window, as well as the streaming ones at the bottom of the main screen. It is a truly useful program, I suggest you download it.
You can also get Trillian and there you don't have to deal with any Ads and you can use multiple connections.